On Instagram the media personality Toke Makinwa shares a video as she talks about finding closure from a broken relationship and how it promotes toxic behaviour and that as a human being your healing is your right as such you must practice that.
OAP Toke Makinwa shares a video on her Instagram and stated that there is absolutely no need for people who hurt others to explain why they treated them badly. Toke noted that such explanations only deepens the hurt.
The controversial media personality took to her official Instagram page with a video to talk about the importance of closure in relationships. According to Toke, finding closure from a broken relationship causes more pain than for one to heal.
The well-known media personality also noted that there’s no need for an explanation as to why someone would hurt a person that they claim to love. Toke went ahead to say that it best to move on.
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Let’s talk about it, as I grow older I find that to me, closure is a trap to promote toxic behavior. It’s ended, it hurts, why do I need you to explain why you couldn’t treat me well? Not only relationships, even in family settings, meeting up with someone who abandoned you as a child to hear why they couldn’t be an adult inflicts more pain than healing. in the past I’ve often times felt like not having closure limits you from moving on till I realized that it’s all in the mind. They left, it hurt, you survived and your healing is your right. I don’t know it all but I feel like closure is giving the people that hurt us an opportunity to soften the blow, we let them justify their bad behavior at our own expense, we relieve them of their guilt entertaining it and hurt ourselves even deeper. like heyyyy you broke my heart and treated me like shit but I get coconut head, I no dey hear word. And those people that ask if we can still be your friends after a break up, Do you even know the definition of friendship? Pls discuss as I want to also learn. Watch full clip on my YouTube channel, link is in my bio. Loving my yellow dress from @zivalagos 😍😍 #vlogwednesday #Tmthevlogger
Like many people, Toke Makinwa revealed to the social media streets that there was a time in her life in the past where she believed that not having closure limits an individual from moving on till when she realized that there’s no such and it’s all in the mind. Your healing is your right and the mind has to get that.